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Delayed Contact

Posted: September 20, 2014 in Daily Prompt, Poetry.. :)
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How would you get along with your sibling(s), parent(s), or any other person you’ve known for a long time — if you only met them for the first time today?
OMG..the thought of it only scares me & writing for this would really be interesting.
Due to this “Delayed Contact”
My life wouldn’t have been intact.
I wouldn’t have been ‘Me’ in fact,
Such great is their impact.
If they weren’t a part of my Life,
it would have been too hard.
Difficulties would have been too rife.
And, happiness from my life would discard.
When this delay is over and done.
meeting you for the first time would be fun.
When the time comes for you to arrive,
I’ll start living, not just survive.
You don’t even have a clue,
of how I felt when you weren’t there.
 Thank God that he sent you to my rescue,
and honoured my silent prayer.
We’ll have some great time spent together,
Those moments of happiness and joy we’ll gather.
Being with you all is indeed a pleasure,
The memories created together are no less than a treasure.
I’m glad and lucky enough that I’ve had you,
better late than never.
You are unaware, without you, what I’ve been through,
Now that I’ve found you, it is gonna be ‘Forever’.
Replying to the wishes and scraps of Valentine’s Day ever since morning, a question intrigued in my mind viz. “Does love need reasons to celebrate..??” Certainly not, but yes ofcourse today is one such day when one can express one’s feelings or exhibit love. But then every day is a Valentine Day for the people truly, madly, badly and deeply in love. Isn’t it…??? The answer is affirmative, atleast for me, though my present relationship status does not confirm it…lolzzz and probably i am not an appropriate person to have said that mainly coz i do not have any experiences of being in love but i think i know how it feels to be in love.


When you truly love someone you are everything you can be, you do everything you possibly can (by hook or by crook) without expecting anything in return. It might sound a bit like the love in bollywood movies, more so coz such kind of love is rarely found in today’s times. It’s easy to love a thousand persons but it’s difficult to love a person in thousand ways, accepting them as they are. No Demands and No complaints.
Having said that and coming back to the reason I am here for, for me Love is itself a reason to celebrate so how can it need any reason or any occasion to celebrate.With all due respect to Saint Valentine,  in whose memoir we all celebrate this great day of love and devotion, his ideologies and all the love birds for whom this day is no less than any festival and is longed for, I just have to say that shouldn’t love be celebrated every day and rejoiced every night. And, if this be done we’ ll have a better place to live in. And, by celebrations in no way I mean to give each other costly gifts, go for romantic outings or amorous dates, or candle light dinner at some five or seven star or any other thing which only the love birds can think of, etc..etc. My sense of celebration is to take care of each other the way none other can, not even your partner himself/herself, have a best understanding of all the differences, be concerned, not just lend but devote and invest your time for the other person [coz its said time is the best thing you can gift to someone coz its a part of your life you give to that person and nobody can take it back (Hamesha and Forever types)], be each other’s strength and support, be the best of friends, give him/her all the rights on you and own all the rights on him/her, Elate Togetherness, CelebrateInseparableness, createfun filled memories so that when one fine day we look back, we are able to say, yes, we not just been together but we have Stayed and Lived Together.  Love is something that provides us with all the strength in the universe to stand against any odds and makes you too weak to face that one person whom you love. Love is a feeling that has no bounds.Love is what makes our life a joyous ride and our living worthwhile. So, in view of these and to draw to close, I would again emphasize that love doesn’t need any reasons to celebrate. Love is a feeling that words can never fully describe, it is how much one can feel it. The feel of this feeling in itself is a ‘Celebration’.


Posted: October 2, 2013 in Love...???
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LOVE – what is it…?? 

  • Is it a thought, a feeling of being cared, loved, valued and our reciprocation of the same…??
  • Is it being concerned about a person more than your own self…Concern, i mean from waking up to sleep, from breakfast to dinner, from minor headaches to major heartaches..??
  • Is it the desire to know the person, in and out, from his/her choices to ignorances, from his/her likes to dislikes, from his/her small wishes to the biggest of his/her dreams…??
  • Is that one prayer you make for his/her well being…?? Is that one wish you have to fulfill all his/her wishes..??
  • Is it that change that comes in you as a response to his/her thoughts or opinion about you..?? Is it that you are ready to accept all the pain from him/her..?? 
  • Is it the “feelings” that keep you waiting to talk to or chat with him/her..that keeps you awake the whole night after a tiring day that you had and before a hectic day you are going to have, you dont feel the need to take rest..having a talk does that fot relaxes you, eases you, takes away your stress..Is it such a wonderful Feeling..???
  • Is it that when you are talking time flies away..and when you wait the clock’s hand are struck as if they have stopped moving..?? 
  • Is it that the entire world’s convincing fails in front of him/her…and his/her just saying is enough for you to listen to follow his/her orders, which though is just said and not even forced..??
  • Is it those sacrifices you make even for the smallest bit of his/her happiness..??
  • Is it those adjustments and compromises you do with one another..for each other’s sake…??
  • Is it a feeling that your dreams seem a miniature to you in front of his/hers..??
  • Is it that your priority list starts starting from his/her name..??
  • Is it that you want to live each and every moment together…and share the talks of times not spent with each other..??
FEELINGS – Are they Developed and Destroyed..???
a) How do they develop..?? Can someone artificially create it or develop it in you or its your own self who does that..?? Is it just because someone makes you feel important and you fall for them..or gradually you start liking one for no reason…or for that matter do we get so habitual or addicted (Mujhe to teri Lat lag gyi kinds) to a person that we think we cannot live without him/her..!! 
b) How are they destroyed…?? Is it just because that special someone who once made you feel important now ignores you..?? Or is it that some newer people come into our life and become so important that you knowingly or unknowingly start ignoring the old ones, the ones you once treasured and valued and lived for..?? 
Can FEELINGS really be developed and destroyed..or it comes out naturally…that initially you like talking to someone, you fall for him/her and gradually you get bored and realize he/she is not your kinds/types. Is it that immature a thing to be felt or made to feel..?? Is it so easy to make someone feel that you are his/her everything…and all of a sudden they don’t even exist for you..?? 
For all these unanswered questions I have just one thing to say, in my opinion “EITHER IT NEVER WAS OR IT WILL ALWAYS BE”……….”NEVER” OR “FOREVER”.